In my household, if a survey is conducted to understand the preference for TV programs, we four will vote for four different categories. My daughter prefers to watch serials based on historical characters (which is quite unusual for girls of her age) and some amount of cartoons while for the son, Ben 10 cartoon is the ultimate entertainment. As regards my preference, I have never been able to sit through the high-strung drama of Hindi serials (I only watch these off and on to get to know the fashion trends) and I only watch TV when there is reality shows on singing and dancing (more of dance shows to improvise on my newly acquired Zumba skills!) whereas my husband bores us, almost to death, when he is in town, by only watching News Channels of all sorts!
Given such varied preferences and with only one Cable connection at home, it should have been blood-shed at my home everyday but thank God for small mercies – my husband travels 20 days a month and Reality shows are far and few. Hence the fight for TV remote is practically confined to the brother-sister duo while I experiment in the kitchen or endlessly scroll up and down the Face Book posts.
……and then there came Euro 2012 with all its glory, craziness and fanfare!
I have a ‘Ronaldo-in –the –making’ at home who has recently caught fancy of the game of foot ball and has been sweating out with the ball religiously everyday with the hope that someday he might get to play for Manchester United (if only I buy him football boots!). In the last six months, I have made ‘Go Sports’ richer by few hundred Dirhams by buying footballs (may be, secretly, I also have started hoping someday I would become glorified as the mother of world’s richest footballer!) .Even though, his dad has never shown craziness or madness around any sport (be it cricket or football or anything else), he appreciates football over cricket and declared one day after coming back from office that he would watch the Euro Cup 2012 every evening!
“How crazy!” my daughter exclaimed fearing that she might have to forego her daily quota of TV-viewing.
“Yes, yes, yes! You know Daddy, to become a good football player, I must watch foot ball matches as many as possible!” screamed my little pumpkin, jumping with joy, almost breaking the sofa.
When they became partners-in-crime, the daughter became a minority audience and silently compromised (as always) by watching cartoons after coming back from school but her evenings are empty now. In my effort to give her company, we have been watching DVDs together, cooking together, and stitching her doll’s cloth together throughout the evening. The house hold is now divided between boys and girls!!
While for the boys, each football match brings new excitement each day, for us girls, it is the same movie, and we have finished stitching clothes for all dolls….boredom prevails during the evening!!
“Why not sit and start learning about how football is played? May be, we will find some fun element to keep us engaged,” we pondered and silently crossed border. The daughter curled up in dad’s lap while the boy leaned on mum’s shoulder (their most comfortable position while watching TV) and wondered how they players sustain so much of running around for 90 minutes!
“Why are those men with yellow shirt racing up and down the border line?” I could not contain my ignorance!
“Ma, you need to know the rules of the game first. They are Lines Man (did I hear it right?)”, pat came the reply from the would-be-famous-soon footballer, followed by a forcefully controlled laugh. Was it a laugh or a taunt? Whatever……
“Yeah, we are precisely trying to do that, you know. Daddy, what is penalty kick, free kick, off-side and the like?” asked the daughter with genuine curiosity. “And by the way, you must thin down if at all, you wish to be a footballer, Chhutku. Look at their tummy and look at yours,” Misti hit the most sensitive button of her know-all-about-the-game brother.
Even though we were trying very hard to understand but it is never easy to learn anything in a single day and we, kind of, gave up! After all, girls are never expected to know all about free kicks and penalty shots rather they should top-up their general knowledge about Prada and LV bags, Channel perfumes, and Jimmy Choo shoes and stuff like that!
Surprisingly, we realized after one or two matches that watching 22 men running after a lone football, tackling others and tripping over each other, is not so boring as watching same DVD again and again and now we are ‘regulars’ during the matches! Wow!!!
The Euro certainly has divided the four of us into two groups – the boys who watch the game because they love the game and the girls who watch the game because there is no choice but then it has also brought all four of us to sit together and enjoy together for those 90 minutes…
In these gadget-age, where the childrens’ world are ruled by i-pod, i-pad, video-games etc, and when the children are fiercely independent (we only teach them to be like that, so they can take on the world head-on from day one), how much time do we sit together as a family to enjoy a laugh?
Euro time, family time – Long live the Euro!!!
